Be Warned of the Most Repulsive & Despised of Manners: Being Difficult, Stubborn, Obnoxious & Argumentative!

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Ever Merciful…

Allah, the Most High, has said (what means):

“Among the people is one who amazes you with his speech in this worldly life. He calls Allah as a witness to what is in his heart, while he is the most obnoxious debater.” (2:204)

Al-Imaam Ibn Katheer (may Allah have Mercy on him) said, in his commentary of this Verse:

Such is the hypocrite when he argues – He lies and invents conspiracies to distract [people] from the truth. He does not stand upright along with the truth, but instead he invents [things] and behaves wickedly.

Al-Imaam as-Sa’dee (may Allah have Mercy on him) said, in his commentary of the Verse:

When you argue with him, you find within him obnoxious dialogue, difficult rigidity, and opinionated bigotry, along with other repugnant character traits which come as a result. This is not like the character of the faithful believers who take the course of easygoing behavior, surrender to the truth as their duty, and embody grace as their routine.

In the two Saheeh compilations, ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that the noble Prophet of Allah (may Allah raise his rank and grant him peace) said (what means):

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The Lofty Virtue of Not Responding to Personal Transgressions in Some Situations

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Ever Merciful…

Shaykh Dr. Mohammad bin Ghalib al-Omari (may Allah bless and preserve him) stated the following in a recent tweet:

Your silence about some people’s transgressions against you is not necessarily weakness or incapability, nor is it proof of the oppressor’s truthfulness. Rather, in many occasions, it is actually proof of your beautiful patience, good understanding, and how distant you are from desiring controversy. Lots of words do not indicate strength in proofs, as some people talk a lot, but they are not actually saying anything.

Source: His Twitter account, dated: Jumaadaa ath-Thaaniyah 26, 1443 (January 28, 2022)

Shaykh Dr. Mohammad bin Ghalib al-Omari is from the trusted and recommended students of our senior scholars. Those who attend our weekly Friday night class on al-‘Aqeedah al-Waasitiyyah will notice that he was the one trusted by al-‘Allaamah ‘Ubayd al-Jaabiree (may Allah preserve him) to prepare his explanation, al-Qutoof al-Janiyyah. We have previously featured some of his insightful and beneficial tweets (here and here). May Allah bless him and preserve him upon goodness.